The bestfriend of someone I fancy before blatatnly asked me this,
“Are you a sexual person?”
If I remember it correctly, I replied with a very reserved smile hoping to brush aside the topic.
“...because he is.” He continued.
I fully understand the importance of sexual compatibility in a relationship. It is not the most important thing in a relationship but it is important, nonetheless. Some people may not be fluent in expressing their love in words but some would often show it in their actions. In sex, there are some things that you will only do to a person that you love and not to someone in a one-night-stand kind of thing.
A friend of mine was once asked if he spits or swallows. His answer was simple yet heavy with meaning, “only if I love the person.”
“Why? Will it taste sweeter if it comes from the one you love?”
My friend replied with a very strict, “basta.”
My friend maybe incapable to sew words together to back up this gesture but he was able to prove a point. Well, at least to me, he did.
Yes, sex is just sex. However, there’s also a reason why it is called making love. And I beleive, at the end of the day, no matter how many great sex we have had in our lifetime, the times we made love will still be the most memorable.